DEAR ABBY: we came across a guy online I was thinking was wonderful. okay, IвЂ™ll be truthful. I needed a fast roll in the hay — absolutely absolutely nothing severe. The guy ended up being a college dropout, profoundly religious and a conversationalist that is great and then we quickly began dating.
Fast-forward six months. I’m caught in a marriage that is loveless. The intercourse is nearly nonexistent. He has OCD, and because of it, he’s afraid to go out of the homely home, obtain a work, go directly to the physician or perhaps naked. What sort of man is scared of being nude in PRIVATE? He could be amply endowed, fit and extremely appealing.
IвЂ™m within my witsвЂ™ end. He requires specialized help, that he will not get. I understand he has got a psychological disease, therefore IвЂ™m trying my most difficult become sympathetic and understanding, but just what have always been We to complete? — NEEDING MORE IN LOUISIANA
DEAR NEEDING MORE: By being sympathetic and understanding, you will be allowing your husband to resist obtaining the assistance he requires. Offer him an ultimatum: He gets professional assistance for his OCD or the wedding has ended. You have got nil to lose using this method and every thing to gain because, if he receives the assistance he requires, your condition may be resolved. And you will possibly avoid having a child with a man who will be unable to support it financially if he doesnвЂ™t.
DEAR ABBY: we have now been hitched for 6 months. Our birthdays fall two days aside. Their birthday celebration is first, so we had been invited to their moms and dadsвЂ™ for cake and dinner. He received gifts that are many their family members.
For convenience, his sibling offered us ONE card with $200 cash on it that has been designed for both of us. (my better half always offers their sister-in-law something special on her behalf birthday celebration.) My better half took the bucks and place it in their pocket without acknowledging that half it had been designed for me personally. Continue reading